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The line between being passionate about your favourite escort and becoming obsessed with her is thin when it comes to dating high-class companions. The ladies are all professional lovers, smart, attentive, sweet and playful women, experienced in what they do and trained as true seductresses, so that they can offer the full erotic experience to their date. But some of the dates can’t help but fall into an extreme, developing stronger feelings than they should and also developing obsessive behaviours towards the escort that they want to turn into a regular, or even something more.

That’s why, ladies, is important to be able to spot an obsessive behaviour right from the start, because you might be tempted, at first to take your date’s actions as flattering, and not knowingly, to give him high hopes regarding his chances he has with you.

So, pay attention to your dates behaviour, do not let yourself swept off your feet by his flirtatious attitude and presents, do not let flattery cloud your better judgement and remember that you are a professional that knows how to separate the escort life from the private life.

Here are a couple of the most frequent signals that show you that you are dealing with someone that has an obsessive behaviour towards you!

1.     Constant attention after only one date and lack of boundaries

It is normal that after a successful date to receive a “thank you” message or call from your date, a good review, a gift or some flowers, but when he’s bombing you with text messages, phone calls or presents, in an attempt to get your attention, then girl, you are dealing with a date that has become obsessed with you.

Also, if the review he wrote about your time together is inappropriate and way more private then you’re ok with, or if he expects you to book him whenever he wants, no matter your schedule, as if he feels entitled to some sort of special treatment, then that is a clear sign of lack of boundaries from his behalf and a sign that you should blacklist him for future encounters.

2.     He thinks the two of you are having a relationship

If he feels that he can be extremely intimate with you, asking you personal things, commenting and giving unwanted advice about your life and how you should live it, then he is crossing the line and you should have a serious discussion with him about this. Talk to him, explain once more your boundaries and the type of relationship you’re having and let him know loud and clear that if he can’t respect your terms, then you will not be able to accept his future bookings.

Be strict about it, but keep the tone friendly and polite, so that he can get the message without feeling his manliness attacked!

3.     He gets close and personal

An obsessed client can even turn to spying on his favourite escort, so if you have the feeling that you are being watched, if you feel unsafe or if he tells you something about yourself or about your schedule, that you didn’t personally told him, then it is a good idea to announce a friend or someone you trust about his behaviour, change your daily routine, blacklist him and even sleep at a friend’s house for a couple of days or even weeks.

4.     He tries to make himself indispensable

A hobbyist that develops an obsessive behaviour towards his escort can come up with some sneaky tricks in order to gain the escort’s trust and favours. He can profit from the fact that the companion has a bad day, by listening to her and being extremely sympathetic, he can start acting as a true friend, creating coincidences and being in the exact place she’s in and offering to help her with her personal problems, he will offer to assist her in her chores, making his way into the escort’s private life and slowly becoming indispensable.

Be very careful when it comes to such behaviour, especially when it is so tempting to accept a guy’s help, his company, his advice and his charming personality, when we think just how lonesome and difficult an escort’s life could be. But don’t fall into this kind of temptation and remember just how important is, for your safety, to keep your personal life separated from your escort life.

5.     He becomes angry, violent and even abusive, when turned down

This is the most dangerous thing that could happen, when we talk about an obsessed client. Most of them are harmless, resuming on lavishing you with gifts and compliments and watching you from the distance, but there are also the aggressive types that you have to be very careful about.

These men tend to become angry and even violent if the object of their desire seems to be hard to get and rejects them. If you feel threatened do not wait till he does something to hurt you, instead ask for help, tell your friends about what is happening to you, change your schedule, avoid routine activities and move for a while at a friend’s house.