There are all kind of misconceptions and myths about how the life of an escort really is.
Many like to think about it as they have seen it in “Pretty woman”, the chance for
a poor, honest woman to know a nice, hopefully rich, man that will fall in love
with her and give her the life she’s always dreamt about. While others choose
the gloomy version, pictured in action movies, with women of the night lurking
in the corners of a dark alley, companions wondering the hotel halls and trying
to avoid the cops.
But all
these are just fables and have nothing to do with how the life of an escort
really looks like and goes on, day by day.
That’s why
this article is meant for both young ladies, thinking of joining the escorting
business and the first-time clients that book a date without knowing what to
expect.
Myth 1. Escorting is all about sex
This statement
can’t be further from the truth, because the reality is different. Many times,
an escort is booked, and this happens especially when the client is a regular
or has previously seen the escort and a connection has created, by a client
only for a nice dinner and good conversation.
Yes, you’ve
heard that right, there are men that pay escorts to talk to them, to have a
smiling, friendly face, listen to their problems and show real interest in
their life. They want a loving and friendly woman to offer them her full
attention and time!
Myth 2. Is the body that matters
You couldn’t
be more wrong than that! Being an escort, especially a high-class one, means
more than having a sexy body.
It means
being up to date with the news, being able to hold a conversation about
politics, art, movies and so on, when your client asks you to join him at a
social event, means to be able to entertain him, not only in bed, but also
during a dinner date or a business trip, means having good taste when it comes
to clothes, perfumes and makeup and always knowing how to read your client’s
desires.
Myth 3. Clients book escorts for rough sex and fetishes
No darlings,
being an escort is not a constant “Fifty Shades of Grey” movie. On the
contrary, most men want normal sex positions and the general feel of a
girlfriend experience. Yes, there are some clients with particular desires,
fetishes and pleasures in bed, but those are reserved for the escorts that are specialised
in such services like BDSM, golden shower, mistress, role playing,
dominant/submissive games and so on.
So, yes, sex
as an escort is mostly vanilla and most men want to recreate the feeling of
having sex with a normal woman, with kissing and oral sex involved into the
mix.
Myth 4. The clients are virgins, ugly
men or weirdos with kinky fetishes
You’d be
surprised by the amount of handsome men that are choosing to book the services
of a professional lover. Being pretty looking doesn’t automatically come with amazing
sex skills or great confidence and self-esteem.
Also,
sometimes handsome and financially-endowed men feel more secure booking the
services of a professional escort, because they know from the start, without
doubts, the terms of the relation.
So, the idea
that only inexperienced, unappealing and weird men book the services of a
companion is very far from the actual truth!
Myth 5. You’ll earn more money then
you’ll know what to do with them
Yes, there
are a couple of perks that come with being an elite escort, like the fancy
gifts that you receive from your regulars, things like purses, designer shoes, jewellery,
dresses, books and even trips abroad, but being an escort doesn’t mean becoming
overnight rich.
You’ll have
your ups and downs, financially speaking and that’s why it’s important to save
money when you make them, so that you can have for rainy days or for the time
you will want out of this business.
Also, being
a high-class escort costs a lot. We are talking about rent for a nice, cosy
apartment, well-located, if you plan to do incalls, money for beauty
treatments, clothes, cosmetics, lingerie, lube, condoms, transportation and so
on.
So, you
might have days when you’ll be lazing around on a fancy yacht, but you must keep
it real so you won’t have a shock when you’ll come back to your tiny apartment.
Myth 6. You must fit into a
stereotype, if you want to be an escort
No, being an
escort doesn’t mean having top-model body measurements, or having a certain
hair colour, or being young! There are men out there that don’t want magazine
perfection, they want a woman with curves, a big bootie, soft breasts, some
love handles to grab to during sex, they fantasize about the “girl next door”
type of woman, or maybe a hot MILF.
So, you don’t
have to be young, skinny, blonde or redhead to be an escort. Darling, there are
men out there who are looking and fantasizing about a woman just like you!
So, next
time someone mentions one of the myths presented above, when it comes to your
escorting activity, don’t mind them, because you know better!