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Are you escort material or not? How to figure it all out!

12 comments 03 Dec 2021

Life comes with all sorts of ups and downs. You can now be prosperous as an escort and live a happy, fulfilling life, and the next day, due to a chain of unfortunate events, you can feel pretty down, wondering if this is what you want to do with your life, or even if you are fit to be an escort.

The first question you need to ask yourself is: am I mentally prepared to be a professional escort? And after that ask yourself if you are also physically prepared to be an escort.

Being an escort is not just fun and games, is not just a glamorous way of living, an endless party and you playing dress-up and having intimate relationships. Being an escort means being physically fit to do this job, to do the long hours, to deal with minimum privacy and lack of personal time, to manage to keep your health even after a couple of weeks of back-to-back dates, long hours in the night spend with different clients and exhaustion caused by it all.

Being an escort also means being equipped with a mental strength that allows you to stand your ground even after dealing with a lot of jerks, creeps, and rude clients. Means having the lucidity to separate your personal life from the dating life, to raise fences and boundaries and not break under pressure. This means knowing that there is no place for feelings or personal attachments in this line of work and that all your dates are no-strings-attached types of encounters.

If you feel like your health allows you to do this job if you don’t have any type of chronic illness that can get altered by this type of lifestyle if you have a strong work ethic, and if you know how to set healthy boundaries between your work hours and your own personal time, then you can move on with the idea and see if other boxes are checked on your list.

The most important aspect when deciding to become an escort is to stay grounded and have realistic expectations. Escorting can be exhausting and draining both mentally and physically, and only those who can set strong boundaries, and have a realistic approach to the situation can perform at their best, managing to have both a successful professional life and a fabulous personal one.

·       Create a working space for yourself at home where you have your laptop to manage your website on, a work phone for all your dates, an agenda to keep score of all your bookings, future engagements and long-term business trips, sex-capades, tours and so on and a system meant to keep track of your finances – what you earn and what your monthly costs as, both your costs as an escort and those related to your personal life.

·       Balance your work life with your personal life by setting a set of rules that you will follow no matter what. For example, decide to have one or two days a month when you get to close your work phone and have your free time completely dedicated to yourself. Or set a working schedule and post it on your directory profile or website, for example, do not accept bookings later than 7 pm, or announce to everyone that you are off the grid every day between 8 pm and 9 am. Or have a system in place where you get to work one important holiday while leaving the next big holiday free to spend it with friends or family (for example work on New Year's Eve but be free for Christmas).

·       Keep your wits and sanity in check by having moments all to yourself, to read, have a massage, jog, or swim, and see a therapist on a regular basis, to talk about your worries, your past trauma, your triggers, and so on.


Keep all these in mind if you plan on working as an escort or if you are starting to have doubts about your career as a professional escort.


What other things would you tell a rookie that’s just about to enter the escorting industry? We can’t wait to hear your input on the matter!

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Jenny Lee Escort: 7 December 2021, 16:29

very usefull. i think i am ready.
hopenatali1: 11 December 2021, 07:02

I am ready to do whatever it takes to be your number one. You say it and I will do it.
Rosafia400: 11 December 2021, 11:27

So true and really good text!
Dakidwilliams053: 12 December 2021, 04:05

Do the best and be yourself
Dakidwilliams053: 12 December 2021, 04:22

Be humble and stay tru to this and make it about work
jnikki016: 12 December 2021, 11:13

Great reading. I do take notes. I'm restarting from when I was younger. NOw I'm more Elegant and Sophisticated. Thank you
PlaymatePearl210: 15 December 2021, 10:54

Don't spend all your money to fast as u make money have goals and use money wisely
Meetgillianrose: 17 December 2021, 20:59

It was ok I am from the USA- I am very upset I can’t get my own domain I was told it doesn’t look professional also about being successful we have to post of the right WEBSITE ADVERTISING places. Not Skip the Games or yespage! You ya a new time FOR ALL OF US IN THE NEW YEAR!!!! We need to ban together least I feel we do. And STABD ON OUR GROUNDS WITH HOW WE DO THINGS- Like we all ALL RAISE OUR RATES IN 2022- Then we won’t be so haggled- Screening a must Deposits
BookBeautyBri2: 21 December 2021, 12:01

No matter what keep clients as clients and keep your personal life just that. Also, have a semi-made up background or personal story you feel comfortable sharing with clients. They don't need to know the real you!
Willow West: 24 December 2021, 15:43

Always listen to your gut about any client that gives you a strange vibe. never ignore your intuition
shnnmrph: 31 January 2022, 14:41

Boundaries boundaries boundaries and more boundaries. The ability to be assertive, without being rude. The ability to guide conversations to your projected goal, the ability to make people feel at ease even when you don't. And there are all kinds of different factors that go into this business but boundaries have been a huge one for me. When I got into this business I have my own personal issues, and after a year and a half of being in this business I made a decision to change my lifestyle in a positive way. Being an escort made me realize that the money has no end but the way you spend your money, the people around you that you're so called friends quote on quote the ones that want to help you and guide you to be more specific while doing nothing themselves are all money drains. I had to separate myself from people who are opportunists because of my lifestyle there is no room for another opportunist that's my goal in being an escort. It's a really hard business and if personal gain isn't your top priority, all you're doing is making money to hand it to somebody else. I found that dating was impossible because I didn't have anything left for anybody else. After being with date after date day after day for a year, I realize that days off are so important. This isn't a 7 day a week profession if you want to be any good and be able to charge decent rate, in self care is so important!! I have to take at least 4 days off a week to be able to fit in working out going to the tanning bed if I go to the tanning bed which I don't I get spray tan but still getting my hair done getting my nails done getting my eyelashes done photo shoots etc so on and so forth it's a full-time job being a full-time job, so if you're one of those escorts that works 7 days a week hour after hour 10 15 guys a day you're going to eventually look like somebody who sees 10 to 15 guys a day 7 days a week and that's not the fantasy that most these men are looking for. Reviews are so important your attitude with each and every client is so important because what happens is when we have a bad day we puke it all over our clients and then they in turn right terrible reviews right? Terrible reviews are not always assholes. Sometimes terrible reviews are well warranted
shnnmrph: 31 January 2022, 14:44

And there are so many so many good people on this website anybody who has any questions feel free to call me and I have so many questions on my own I don't quite know how to reach out to people on this warm yet but if somebody could message me back and let me know exactly what I need to do and how to do it I would love to get involved with communicating back and forth with anybody who wants to do so
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